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The Truth About Love: Attracting It, Handling Rejection & Making It Last

Kembala Evans Season 2 Episode 3

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The greatest human desire is to love and to be loved.

In this episode of Light Up the Mic, Kembala Evans steps into real conversations with everyday people and asks one powerful question of each: How do you attract love into your life?

From couples married over 50 years to singles reflections on heartbreak, boundaries, vulnerability, rejection, and agape love, this episode explores love in its many forms — romantic, family, spiritual, and self-love.

You’ll hear why respect and honesty matter, why self-love sets the standard, and why love doesn’t promise permanence — but it fuels growth.

Whether you’re in love, healing, or still hoping for it… this one is for you.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Respect Is the Foundation of Love. Real love shows up in how we speak, listen, and appreciate one another.
  2. Honesty Builds Trust. You cannot attract lasting love without truth and clear communication.
  3. You Attract What You Reflect. Kindness, openness, and empathy create space for love to enter.
  4. Self-Love Comes First. If you don’t love and understand yourself, it’s difficult to love others fully.
  5. Boundaries Are a Form of Love. Loving someone doesn’t mean accepting everything. Healthy love includes limits.
  6. Agape Love Is Unconditional. Love can continue — even when relationships change form.
  7. Rejection Is Redirection. Being yourself and risking vulnerability is worth it. The right love will accept you.

A therapist shares the 9 things people want most in life: ‘Forget everything else’ 

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